Now that Fifty Shades of
Grey is so popular, all of the media is talking about sex and sex toys. Are you
curious about trying them but are too embarrassed? Are you unsure whether they
are right for you and your relationship?
The following are some
common misconceptions about adult toys:
Most people don't use sex
toys
Wrong! Many respectable
people use adult toys, including people most would consider perfectly normal.
Using an adult toy doesn't make you "odd" or doesn't say anything
negative about your relationship. It just helps you have fun more fun in the
bedroom! You don't have to share with your friends, your boss or your mother
that you use toys unless anyone unless you want to.
Sex toys are just for
masturbation.
While adult toys are
commonly used for masturbation, many couples enjoy using toys together, whether
they are female or male or heterosexual or homosexual. Usually these couples
are comfortable trying new things together, are open-minded, and trusting.
Your partner will feel
inadequate if you start using a sex toy.
Are you nervous that if you
bring an adult toy into the bedroom, it will hurt your partner's feelings? An
adult toy can give you an orgasm, but it can't tell you how much they love you
or rub your back. An object is not a substitute for a real person. If your
lover has this fear, be sensitive and stroke his or her ego a little bit. As
with most relationship issues, good communication is key.
Using sex toys can be
physically dangerous.
NO WAY!
In fact, adult toys can
have very positive effects on your sexual health.
For example, many doctors
and therapists recommend adult toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm;
if you suffer from painful sex, vibrators can stimulate blood flow; all women
can benefit from kegel exercisers or kegel balls to tone the pelvic floor
muscles; prostate massagers reduce the risk of prostate cancer, erectile
dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. Lastly, orgasms help you live
longer, block pain and, some say, look younger. Who wouldn't want that?
If you use sex toys too
much, you won't have an orgasm with your partner.
If your partner is afraid
you'll replace him or her with your favorite toy, promise him or her that
you'll always keep things different in the bedroom: try different positions,
new toys, light bondage and fantasy play.
If your relationship is
healthy, there's no reason why you should need a sex toy.
You are so lucky to have a
healthy relationship. However, who wouldn't want to make their relationship
even stronger and closer by sharing a new experience? If your lover is
insistent about not wanting to use an adult toy to spice up your sex life,
assure him or her that you don't need an adult toy either, you'd just like to
try one.
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